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rubbyrubbishbin:

noitemsfoxonlyfinaldestination:

landofpulseandhaze:

can i just take a moment and say how much this really truly means to me? like. it just really hits home,

because it’s is true.

why, in the end, does it really matter what sex or gender somebody is? why is it such a “deal-breaker,” when it comes to sharing affections and romance (not talking intimacy here) with somebody?

i thought i was going to write some really long thing about it but…….. in the end all i can say is thank you, hussie.

thank you for bringing it up. thank you for questioning it. thank you for bringing it to attention.

just just honestly can’t thank you enough i really feel like i should say it a billion more times or something just thank you

because a lot of people’s sexualities and genders aren’t fluid?

yeah i kinda was off put by the general WHY DO PEOPLE CARE ABOUT GENDER RAWR stuff going around today because yeah .. for a lot of people their sexuality just doesn’t work like that. 
thats why?

thats why its important to them? 

And even disregarding sexuality, someone people just aren’t even ROMANTICALLY attracted to certain genders etc. Some people are bisexual but only interested in romantic relationships with the same/opposite sex, for instance. If you’re not attracted to someone you’re not attracted to someone, and trying to force it is really really unhealthy and leads to a lot of problems down the road.